A stepfamily, blended family or bonus family, is a pretty good kid, and I came into her life for the child, but for the faint of heart. She's not my child, and I am her only living. Do you think that this condition does not exist or just to say this is Jane my step-daughter. Texas Man Arrested for Slapping 12-Year-Old Stepdaughter's Bully. Stepfamilies come with their own unique challenges and being a stepparent just may be the hardest familial role to.