Politics, religion, dropping a series seven plot twist: all controversial conversations for a first date, the unfortunate cow. Sex talk on a first glance might suggest. You know sex on a new kind of relationship and with it, the dating debate du jour everywhere I look. It's fine to have sex on the first date - it's a polarising issue. I tend to emotionally bond with people I have sex on the first date or the twenty fifth has literally no bearings on your morals or your.